What is an Alpha Male?
Alpha Male: What most men aspire to be but have no clue how to get there.
Recently, I have come across the question what is an Alpha Male? Most men aspire to be Alphas but have no concrete definition of what an Alpha male is. So, they came up with their own version of what an Alpha male is. Some leaders in the topic of the red pill philosophy believed that an Alpha male is someone who has the ability to influence women into getting to sleep with them and then continue their hedonistic behavior.
Other men believe, that it is the famous male who poses all the 6’s women look for in a male—Six feet tall, six-figure income, six-inch dick—because that is what they say most women look for, from the evolutionary perspective. They based their definition on only physical factors such as being strong and tall. They believed that by being strong, tall, and having a big sexual member they would have more opportunities in life than those men, who don’t possess those physical requirements.
Nevertheless, I understand that by you having those physical attributes it may give you some type of advantage in society. Nonetheless, if you don’t know how to use those attributes to your advantage; you may only open the door but you would not be able to stay in for long. Physical attributes can only make you attractive to be with women but you can easily fall victim to the boomerang effect trap women love to place on men. You think you are a hunter, but you can easily become the prey.
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It takes more than to have a six-pack abs, be six feet tall, and have a six-inch dick to make a six-figure income—and even then, you could become just a big whale, ready to be hunted; arrrrr! Rollo Tommasi author of the book Rational Male, says “that prisons are full of Alphas” and “Alphas are nothing more than an ideal concept” He gives an example of Genghis Khan a character in history that ruled from 1184-1206 in the early 12th century in central Asia. The man had wives and concubines from the places he’d conquered, and usually, these women were queens and princesses from these areas.
This idea of the alpha male compared to Genghis Khan seems to me a little bit sociopathic. Since we don’t live in the 12th century and cultures have changed over the course of history. However, to bring the concept of an Alpha Male close to modern living you can compare this idea to a man with leadership traits. And in my opinion, reducing leadership traits only to use them for self-indulgence is a little bit shallow. I believe that leadership skills should be used for much more than the mere desire of having an “emperor’s life with wives and concubines” in modern society.
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Although, it can be possible to have sex with multiple women at the same time, and have them behave in a certain way; reducing your leadership traits just for sexual pleasure can be saturating—what then you will do with the rest of your time? In my opinion, an Alpha Male should be a man who has leadership traits and use those traits to construct something bigger than himself.
Sexual pleasure it’s just that pleasure! Once you are saturated with it, what then? This is what differentiates most of the movers and shakers of this society from the rest of the populous. There is a saying: “the world revolves around sex and sex is about power!” Leadership traits can help you to gain that power, however, it is what you do with that power that makes the difference.
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